The Sweetest Thing

This evening, my husband and I are watching "Happy Feet" for the first time, and several thoughts are coming to mind....

Firstly, it is incredible that penguins mate for life. I think this is so beautiful, and really incredible that they are able to understand the importance and the precious gift monogamy is. Monogamy, as far as I am concerned, is much more than simply reducing the urge to sleep with someone else. It is a commitment, yes, however, one that goes beyond physical intimacy. It is about generously sharing responsibilities, loving and cherishing every bit of a person, and promising yourself and your partner a lifetime of love.

Also, I am toying with the idea that the reason penguins are able to remain monogamous is because the male partner shares a lot of the parenting responsibility. While the female goes off to work, she trusts her male partner with the child, trusts him enough to leave. In a comical sense, this would reduce the chance of infidelity by 50%- it would be pretty difficult to seduce another female with an egg between your legs. However, to assume this is why they can be monogamous would be sexist, yet it is a funny thought. I do believe that the sharing and equal distribution of responsibility does aid in a successful, and monogamous, relationship.

Speaking of lifetime relationships, I currently read to a senior man who is in his nineties. His wife and him will be celebrating their 68th anniversary tomorrow, and I think this is so amazing and admirable. This afternoon, I went to the bakery and spent a considerable amount of time choosing a cake for such a beautiful relationship. This was no easy task. If it were a cake for myself, it would have taken less than five minutes, however, aside from the fact that I do not know their taste, I also wanted to ensure that my gift would show how much I honor and respect their commitment to one and other. Sixty-eight years calls for much more than a Red Velvet Cake topped with Cream Cheese Icing, but I know they will appreciate every bite. They are the sweetest couple, and deserve so much more than I can give them, yet they already have so much more, and they give it to one and other.

I hope in 67 years, my husband and I will find ourselves devouring a Red Velvet, Cream Cheese Iced cake, and will find that there is nothing sweeter in life than true love with a soul mate whom has made a monogamous promise and kept it.